How often do you find yourself forcing yourself to do something because you feel you've got something to prove? There is a line between coping out and taking the easy road vs feeling like you need to be a hero or martyr.

#191: Accepting that I am who I am.
I used to be SO sharp. Seriously, I was the one at work that people called to ask class year, type of degree, name of grandkids. As a fundraiser, this…